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Tuesday, September 25, 2012

September photo update!

Brog's with some friends (Jimmy & Vegas)



Door County Pictures!







































Playing together!



He just got a buzz cut.


At the apple orchard....first time Lucy got stung by a bee!! (on the lip too!)  She isn't allergic though and the swelling subsided in just 2 hrs! Amazing!




International Fall Festival in Eau Claire...this is the petting Zoo.









Auntie Ali was in town visiting some friends!


(25 week bump! above)


Lucy showing love to her blankie.






Keller's first time out hunting with Papa Reilly


He LOVED these plastic rims!




First teeth cleaning with Papa Reilly!







No cavities!!! Now it's dad's turn! (mom already went..)


Off to hunt on our own...(okay, we didn't make it to the tree line...)



September in a nutshell

Hey all -

My last post was a bit of a downer! Lol.  Things have been getting better.  I had a bit of "lordosis" or sway back caused by my pregnancy...but after some adjustments and luckily for me a shift in baby positioning, I'm feeling much more like myself.  September is literally FLOWN by.  We had that wedding over labor day - the one I referenced in the last post - then a wedding the following weekend in Door County (pictures to following weekend - then a weekend at home (which was great - we took the boat out for its last hurrah!) - then again, this past weekend traveled to Wisconsin Dells so Broghan could finish his Continuing Education courses that need to be done by the end of the year.  We finally get some back-to-back weekends at home in October with only a few day trips to River Falls (for Broghan to do a hockey seminar) and both of us (to go to our last wedding of the year).  Other than that, the travel bug in this family is taking a break and sleeping for a while! This momma is very excited about that.

Outside of travel, here is a quick update on the Reilly crew:

Broghan - September was a month of re-focusing at the office.  We had some personnel switching at the beginning of the summer and then of course took our long vacation which (as most vacations do) inspired Broghan to really focus hard on building our practice/business over the next few months.  He's been working on streamlining things for patients and also looking into boosting our online presence.  It's been a lot of brainstorming, phone calls, meetings, online things and of course keeping up with his ever-growing patient base.  To learn more about everything going on at the office and what he's been up to, check out our website - www.chippewachiropractor.com - he's worked really hard on it and it has some great information...even for those who could never be patients!

Abby - I started school at the end of August and September brought about the beginning of many of my mom-club activities.  Since school is on Tuesday and Thursday nights though, I actually have to miss out on one of my favorite monthly meetings - the Holistic Mom's Network.  I have learned a great deal from attending and love hearing all of the alternative and new innovative ways to keep your family and home healthy and clean.  School has been...well...easy.  I finished my first course this summer with an A+ and am on track to repeat that with this second one.  I think coming from an educational situation at Gustavus where learning was combined not only with extremely demanding courses, but also with hockey, work, Sigma, social life and family; the situation where I only take one course makes it all very easy, step-by-step and straight forward for me.  This course is a little different in its layout than the last, but I seem to be doing find thus far.  Much of what we're learning are things I have previously learned either in Highschool or Gustavus or actually through some seminars that I've attended with Broghan.  It makes me excited to keep moving forward with school, yet at the same time, makes me wish I had the finances and the time to take more courses at once.  Other than that, its the usual mom stuff for me - food, laundry, home cleaning, kid-caring, etc.

Keller - While we haven't actually attended yet (we were out of town) last Thursday marked the start of his Fall dance class (thank you Auntie Anna!).  It's called Creative Movements and I'm hopeful we will pick up some stuff to help burn energies while inside over the winter months.  As Broghan keeps reminding me, he has turned a corner in his development and is no longer a toddler...but a little boy and little boys need to burn  A LOT of energy!  So basically, I have to find ways to wear him down.  He has completely achieved day-time potty training and is working on night time stuff.  But he is constantly finding ways to be independent.  He wants to try and do everything on his own.  He is also (finally) in a phase of constant verbal repetition of what he hears.  So needless to say, we've heard some words we probably need to be more careful of expressing come out of his mouth...not that he has a clue what they mean of course.   This winter will also bring some fun outdoor activities for Keller since we're fairly sure he'll be able to hold his on on the ice (skating) and G-ma/G-pa Reilly are ready, willing and able to take him downhill skiing for the first time.

Lucy - She is what I would call...spitfire! She is smarter than I can even fathom.  She talks way more than Keller did at this age, but that is no surprise (she wasn't preemie, she is a girl and she is second in the house).  She is watching everything that Keller does and is constantly determined to do what Keller does too.  She has figured out how to get her way with most everything and has the stubbornness (or should I characterize it as willfulness?) of my husband.  She also has the appetite like an adult; however, measures in the 10th percentiles...making it hilarious when people look at her and think she is much younger than she really is (17 months currently).  I will say that she is much different than Keller in that she enjoys her quiet times alone and its an obvious attitude shift when she is out with me, Broghan, or another adult or set of adults without Keller.  She isn't quite as rowdy. She is loving and sweet and gives kisses and hugs freely; although has this ability to be so cutely bashful around strangers.  She isn't involved in any "activities" yet and isn't necessarily drawn to anything quite like Keller was, but she is in LOVE with her blankies probably more than Keller was in love with playing with balls (which he still loves to do).  So while she doesn't have specific fixations, she does seem to enjoy doing most of the things we do anyways - the park, going for walks, dancing, singing, drawing, etc.

Baby #4 - This one is giving me a hard time.  Not physically or anything, but emotionally.  I kind of knew it would in a way, but from all outside and examining points, this baby is healthy and doing fine; HOWEVER, in the past week or so it certainly has chosen to shift positions and sleep...a lot.  I feel movements everyday and whenever I take time to rest and try to feel them, but that is such a nagging concern.  One that I don't think will ever change with any pregnancy once fetal movements begin.  The babe is 26 weeks gestation now and I have no real concerns about pre-term labor.  We have scheduled our fall/early winter to be as low-key as possible, but who knows right?!  But that's about it...my belly is getting big and baby is too!

I'll follow this up with a barage of pictures of from September....I'm too lazy/out of time to organize them or describe them...but most follow along with something I've written about above!

Until Next Time...

Wednesday, September 5, 2012

so there is a downside to pregnancy after all...

Whenever I get the opportunity to share my birthing experiences and timelines...people are quite amazed that I'm on my fourth pregnancy in four years.  Literally, since April of 2008, I have spent...(doing mental math.....okay ditching mental math....using a calculator) 130 weeks - or roughly 32.5 months - or roughly 2.7 YEARS pregnant! Almost three full years...and by the time I have this baby...it will be OVER three years!  It's insane...and honestly, when people ask about it and ask if we'll have more they are almost always amazed to hear me say, I'm not sure, but more than likely yes, we will have more.  Then the ultimate: WHY?! comes out.   Well, in all sincerity, pregnancy is quite easy for me.  It doesn't consume my life, meaning my day-to-day routines tend to stay about the same, except I slow down a little faster than usual and can't lift or move larger objects like I'd prefer.  But I don't get seriously sick, my appetite doesn't own me, I don't gain a ridiculous amount of weight, I don't swell or retain water, my BP is always low and my kidneys handle it all with much grace.  So up until the point of delivery, I've never felt that pregnancy was a downer or if I had a moment of depression regarding it, it was usually something more along the lines of I don't feel well as opposed to I'm resenting being pregnant....until this past weekend.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not resenting this pregnancy...or any of them.  But the thought did actually cross my mind that my emotions were leading me down that path.  You see, this past weekend we celebrated the wedding of some great friends...with a giant group of more great friends...and everyone had a blast (me included); however, much of the "fun" happened either at a bar or at the reception - where the fun revolved mostly around drinking and dancing...two things that a pregnant girl with a nice round, basketball like belly can't exactly indulge in.  Drinking is an obvious one and I'm pretty used to experiencing all moments of life sober but add into that the struggle of being in heels for hours on end and standing and dancing and I think the physical and emotional limits were pushed.  (I will say this and sorry if it's TMI, but it's MY blog...when I stand too long or walk too long or lift too much...my cervix literally hurts...it aches...like a sore muscle...so this is what was happening...along with all of the pains of wearing high heels..)

Broghan was honored to get to be part of the wedding party - a task he's taken on many times before (he literally is beating me like 7-0 in that category...so honestly, could someone I KNOW PLEASE GET MARRIED! I need to start catching up...).  But for some reason, during both the rehearsal dinner (a boat cruise) and the reception, I got emotional and lonely.  Two things that don't usually happen to me.

For one, I'm pretty stable emotionally...even throughout pregnancy...and whenever I do have a moment of weakness (haha okay, I know emotions aren't weaknesses...but hopefully you get what I'm aiming at), I am usually able to recognize it and at least internalize it until a more appropriate time when I can work through them in peace or with someone who can actually provide proper attention...say for instance, AFTER the boat cruise or AFTER the reception.

Secondly, I don't usually get lonely.  I'm a pretty outgoing person and am fairly independent (in my opinion) and so to find others to converse with and entertain myself with is usually an easy task.  Plus, I love seeing Broghan interact with his friends from home because it brings out a side of him that I rarely get to see in our adult lives where he has the pressures and responsibilities of being the one to run our business, to be a great husband and an amazing dad to soon to be three kids.  Its a lot to take on.  So it really should have been fun for me to see him having fun and relaxing for a few hours.

But nope, this lady got teary, isolated herself, and ended up drawing Broghan away for a decent amount of time at both events.  Not dramatically, I promise, but to me, the whole thing is dramatic because I honestly feel that it shouldn't have even happened...And while most probably didn't even realize our absence, I certainly knew what I was doing and felt horrible...but at the same time, I was being driven by my emotional side...not a rational one at that moment and was terrified he would leave and go back to the party without me because how I was reacting was so irrational...such a ridiculous thought because as soon as he understood I was upset, he didn't leave me at all....(awwww..) ;).

So really, what this all sums up to is that I've realized that the effects of being unable to do things really does take its toll on me and while in pregnancy #1, #2, & #3 I was probably tough enough to deal with it all...it appears that pregnancy #4 is getting the best of me.  Hopefully with this new insight of sorts I'll be better prepared and aware of any situations like this arise again...I'm thinking it won't (we don't have any social gatherings quite as similar...in terms of Broghan needing to be detained like he was).  But I've also realized that once I'm clear through those first few months of post partum life...and this newest one is more independent of this momma...watch out - because I'm ready to do a little running around of my own! (as long as I can end by 9...staying up past 10 is just way too hard...)  :P

Until Next Time....